The world changes once you cross your country’s border.
BY SARAH PEERLESS
Planning a trip involves more than packing a suitcase and planning an itinerary. When traveling outside of a package tour, travelers will be in the swirling midst of sights, sounds and smells that they have never dreamed of experiencing and pre-travel preparation is needed. Cultures and traditions are very different outside of European nations and their progeny, and many people embark on a trip without truly understanding where they are going. This can often lead to disappointment, confusion and anger which could make or break the adventure. No body wants to come home from their once yearly vacation and wish they never went. Taking a little time to read about the destination and opening up one’s mind will prevent many awkward moments.
A few things to know before setting off:
Many countries in the world still base their laws on religious values and restrictions. Visitors are expected to follow the rules of the faith even if it is not their own. Drinking is prohibited in many Muslim countries, like Malaysia, and in others it is severely restricted. Failing to observe the laws can lead to fines or arrests. No tolerance is given to foreigners, it is expected that visitors know the laws of the country before entering it.
Muslim countries also have clothing restrictions that are to be followed by women in the country. Wearing tank tops and shorts outside your resort or the beach area may be greeted with disgust and scorn. Some people have even been spat on for not observing local customs. Particular respect must be paid at religious sites as visitors will be barred entry if they are not wearing appropriate clothing such as appropriate head coverings, long-sleeved shirts, and clothing that covers legs to the knee.
Hand gestures can also be very confusing. In Taiwan holding out your hand, palm down, and waving your fingers down means come here, but it is very close to the North American gesture to sit down. Endlessly confusing, especially when there is no place to sit! In other places like Indonesia the feet and left hand are considered unclean and should never be used for pointing. The left should also never be used for eat food with as it used to be used for toilet paper and now is an unclean appendage.
In many places public affection between couples is considered inappropriate or offensive. Holding hands, hugging and kissing are not allowed in many Muslim countries and in places like Singapore, even for married couples. However, similar behavior between same sex people is considered a sign of friendship. It’s quite common to see men in much of Asia with their arms around each other while walking down the street or sitting on a bench.
As a guest in other peoples countries travelers are often expected to observe local traditions and customs and it can be very rewarding to do so. When foreigners are seen to be attempting to follow tradition you will be warmly received and possibly provided with extra advice to help you through your journey. Ignoring cultural traditions however, could incur the disgust of the locals and possibly even involve the police. So do some pre-reading and don’t forget to pack a little respect, patience and open-mindedness before you depart. IT!
Sarah Peerless has traveled through North America, Europe and parts of Asia. She currently teaches English in Taiwan.
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